tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1501242474703008736.post4671978963914356347..comments2023-05-04T15:08:52.787+04:00Comments on Fat Girl Follies: DisappointedFarriemisthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07095304314523339717noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1501242474703008736.post-50206342379506374152012-12-11T18:32:23.390+04:002012-12-11T18:32:23.390+04:00Ok M,
You are one of my best friends and I love y...Ok M,<br /><br />You are one of my best friends and I love you for your concern. But what makes you think that in 10 years I won't be healthy? How do I make you understand that FAT does not equal to UNHEALTHY?? I do have a healthy lifestyle... because of my previous diets I am used to eating food that has less or no oil, low salt, less sugar. Just because I don't enjoy eating salads and raw vegetables does not mean I'm not healthy. Just because I don't workout like a maniac does not mean I'm not healthy. My lifestyle and choices are much better than what they were before. I am just not obsessed with losing weight like I used to be. That is unhealthy. <br /><br />Yes, age will catch up to my body but I have made a few changes in my lifestyle just so I don't have ill health in the future. <br /><br />As for being a part of moments... trekking and camping... I've done it... did not enjoy it not because of my weight because I am just not an outdoorsy type person. Playing soccer... I don't even watch it. I don't like it. It's not because of my weight. I enjoy basketball and have played it since school. Just because I'm not a sporty person does not mean it's because of my weight. Cycling... again sporty and outdoorsy... will not enjoy it NOT because I'm fat. <br /><br />You wouldn't judge a thin or what you consider a "healthy" person if they didn't enjoy sports or trekking. Why would you judge a fat person?<br /><br />So I can't run... my body can't do it... but why would I??? I never liked running races even in school and back then I was not so fat. <br /><br />And please... stop thinking fat as a bad word. Don't find it insulting if people call you fat especially if you are not. Because I find that insulting to me.<br /><br />I don't need to justify myself anymore... I just want people to stop telling me that being fat is a curse. IT IS NOT. <br /><br />- F<br /><br />PS: You are not fat. And it's ok even if you are. You'd still be that funny, goofy, weirdo who hits on me in front of his girlfriend... creepily with his girlfriend. Hope your massages have "Happy Endings" lolzFarriemisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07095304314523339717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1501242474703008736.post-30456918092824948102012-12-06T02:54:01.286+04:002012-12-06T02:54:01.286+04:00Farrie,
We all love the way you are...but we are ...Farrie,<br /><br />We all love the way you are...but we are scared of how you would cope in the future. I speak for myself here. Being fat is NOT the only matter here...its about being healthy, and yes EVERYONE has a unique BMI (Body Mass Index) which determines the amount of fat on a person and gives an estimation of how much is needed to loose/gain to maintain a healthy life style. It is awesome that your bloodwork came out good..but thats NOW. What about later...maybe 5 yrs later...maybe 10..? Your body will NOT be as strong as it is right now and when it fails, it fails pretty rapidly most of the time and at that time, even the best of medicine and friends would not be able to elevate your pain. If you live in the misconception that you can continue living a healthy lifestyle for the next 10 yrs with no chance of ill health, then i can state that the odds are definitely against you.<br /><br />Nobody wants their friends go through trauma and pain and not able to participate in events in each others life cause of health reasons. Maybe you cant go on a trek, maybe cant play soccer with the kids, cant bicycle, cant sleep without a sleep master etc. All those small things adds up to lost moments in ones life, to be honest...in everyone's life who cares about you cause they want you to participate in those events.<br /><br />Being happy in your own skin is great...being happy is NICE for gods sake..BUT dont fool ureself saying that whatever you are doing atm is not gonna affect your lifestyle in the future. I was well chiseled, 78 kilos of pure muscle 10 yrs ago, today..im well rounded and 78 kilos of poggy fat. Yes..im happy with my life...BUT it does affect me to know that what im doing to myself is not good in the long run. I have started walking regularly, plan to play some sports with some poggy friends and if they dont agree, tie a suicide vest to them and make them play. <br /><br />I know its hard to loose weight..i know cause im trying to and i dont know how i even gained so much fat BUT each day trying to loose some is a fuckin momentous journey. BUT i try,,,and make weekly goals..all achievable and i try to keep them. All i did was make MINOR changes to my life...just a bit of walking and reducing my intake of colas and started having fruits..I actually eat a lot more than before...same ddiet..rice,chicken,mutton,fish every fukin day...and sunday mutton dhansak for sure...with seconds. Infact, i started maintaining my weight and actually reduced an inch recently. I feel a lot more active..a lot more slimmer and now i feel much more confident & better to run and hack to death those mofos who called me fat.<br /><br />Therefore, im happy..im livin my life..AND know that i reduce my chances of having any issues later in life and BE A PART of moments with friends and family doin all the weird things. Im also happy cause i just found the correct address of the HEAVEN ON EARTH massage parlor in jogeshwari. I also plan to add that into my schedule to be more happy :D<br /><br />So yes, be a lil fat...no worries..BUT TRY to maintain and loose weight slowly and steadily, schedule ureself and your goals and maintain it. Trust me, your world will open up to so many things that you missed all this while..things u dont even know existed ( like my HEAVEN ON EARTH massage parlour ). Imagine, u would be able to run behind me after i scared u with a rubber lizard.<br /><br />Im sorry for the rant but i truly care about u and am truly excited about the massage parlor... :D<br /><br />MOsama his 72 virgins (ALL FEMALE)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09027532417341161920noreply@blogger.com